Do we all practice random acts of kindness? There’s one group of people that is all too often overlooked, so today I’m going to focus of acts of kindness to neighbors.
“Commence silly walk now”, the sign by the sidewalk read. So, naturally, I started silly walking, hoping that the residents of the house were watching out their front windows to admire my (lack of) grace and poise. My dog, Ozzie, chose to walk his normal way, which isn’t silly at all. He did at least stop to sniff the sign. As we moved on, I thought of what a simple, but impactful, act of kindness to neighbors this family showed just by posting a small sign by the sidewalk in front of their home.
A Simple Act of Kindness to Neighbors
I wondered how many people elected to participate in this silly walk request. I hope a lot of them did – because the silly walk request by strangers gave me such a warm, happy feeling. The sign showed their effort to bring a smile and a laugh to the day of each passerby. A simple act of kindness to their neighbors.
As I continued walking, I thought of the many wonderful acts of neighborly kindness I have experienced. These acts have been particularly noticable since we all became house-bound by this disruptive coronavirus. I’d like to share a few of them with you.
Times like this, even though tragic and devastating, bond us together as neighbors.Jerry Reed
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Types of Kindness You Can Show Your Neighbors
One of the most memorable events of the coronavirus “season” took place on our court last week. One of our neighbors hired an amazing violinist to serenade us all for a half-hour. He set up in the middle of the court, and we sat in camp chairs spaced out around him. So much beautiful music – we had many unexpected walkers and bike riders stop to hear him play, too.
I think everyone went home with a smile and a tear in their eye!
Street Picnics and Parties:
Even while keeping social distancing rules in effect, neighbors are gathering for happy hours, drive-by birthday and graduation parties, and even picnics and barbeques.
We have held several happy hours in our driveways over the last few months, and it is so uplifting to spend even a few minutes connecting with our neighbors.
Last night, the smell of grilled chicken was powerful on our back patio. It turned out the neighbors on the street just up the hill from us had gathered for an outdoor dinner. Each family provided their own tables, chairs, dinnerware, and side dishes, and one person grilled chicken for them all to share. Based on the laughter we could hear, they had a wonderful time!
Front Porch Gifts:
Remember playing “DingDongDash” when you were young? You know, where you would ring a random doorbell, and run away before the door opened?
It seems to be popular in our neighborhood now, except people are leaving little gifts on the porch before disappearing! Baked goods, wildflower bouquets, candy jars, and homegrown vegetables seem to be among the more popular surprises people are receiving. This act is the most fun when it’s done anonymously, leaving neighbors to wonder who left their unexpected gift.
Thank You Signs:
“Thank you, first responders” “We love our teachers” “We appreciate essential workers” – there are signs cropping up all around town, in front yards of private homes, on street corners, displayed across the tops of fences.
Some are professionally produced, some homemade, many are obviously created by children. But they all convey the sincere message that they recognize the efforts others have made to maintain health, education, safety, and some semblance of normalcy during a decidedly abnormal time.
Not just for kids anymore, I’ve spotted chalk creations everywhere lately – everything from hopscotch grids to declarations of “congratulations, graduate” and “happy birthday Grandma”.
In the park near our house, someone placed a box of chalk near a concrete block wall, along with the beginnings of a mural. Countless people have added to the drawing, leaving messages, signing names, and other personal touches.
Being a good neighbor is an art which makes life richer.Gladys Taber
Throughout my neighborhood, someone has taken the time to hand paint any number (10? 100?) of rocks and pebbles and placed them in locations where they can be spotted by anyone walking down the sidewalk. Many of them have sweet messages of hope. Some have just smiles or flowers or random designs. All of them are a sweet surprise when they are spotted.
Living in southern California, many houses here are blessed with fruit trees of all varieties – orange, lemon, lime, grapefruit, pomegranate, and avocado, to name just a few. When these trees produce, they really produce, with far more fruit than any one family can consume.
It’s become commonplace to see “help yourself” baskets of fruit at the base of many driveways, so passersby can stock up on any fruit they like. The donated fruit is a blessing for those who have no fruit trees, and a wonderful way to reduce food waste.
Several houses have placed posters propped on easels in their front yards. The messages change daily, and include quotes, humorous drawings, and jokes of the day. Everyone who walks or rides by can enjoy them!
Little libraries have been fashionable for several years now. These small libraries with a “help yourself” message crop up most often near schools, playgrounds, and parks. The books are donated by individuals who have finished reading them, and anyone is free to borrow any book they would like.
One popular library in our town lives in a little red children’s wagon, and is known to pop up on different street corners each day. The motto is “take one, leave one” so there is a constantly evolving collection of books for both children and adults. The wagon is usually filled to overflowing.
This one is for the dogs! Some wonderful soul has placed a basket full of old tennis balls at the park nearest my house. They are for anyone to use to play fetch with their dogs while visiting the park. I’ve kept an eye on it, and everyone seems to be putting the balls back in the basket for others when they leave. Ozzie and I love having these balls waiting for us at the park!
Imagine what our real neighborhoods would be like if each of us offered, as a matter of course, just one kind word to another person.Mr. Rogers
Read More About Kindness:
- Are We Too Busy to be Kind?
- What is Kindness and Why is it Important?
- Easiest Neighborhood Event Ever: The Pop-Up Party
- Life Lessons for Everyday
- Kindness in a Time of Crisis
Final Thoughts on How to Turn Neighbors Into Friends Through Acts of Kindness
These are a few very simple acts of kindness to neighbors, ways I have witnessed in my own life during this unsettling time. I’m sure there are many, many other things people are doing to create and maintain connections to those they live around.
While it’s always easy to spot the negative aspects of our current situation, I wanted to take this brief moment to shine a light on the good that exists every day in our world.
What have you seen or done that you could add to this list? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below!