This post focuses on seven lightning-fast ways to reduce your stress. Within a few minutes you can reduce the tension you feel and manage your reactions to the stress-inducing events around you. Try one of these stress relievers the next time you need relief fast.
Although it would be next to impossible to eliminate it completely from modern life, we can learn to manage and control the stress we feel.
To do this, we must remember that situations on their own do not cause stress – stress is created based on our response to these events.
Sometimes we need complex stress management systems, and sometimes we just need a way to blow off stress quickly.
Stress ought to be a four-letter word, I often think. It can cause physical and emotional harm, derail our best intentions, and make us lose sight of our goals.
Ways to Control Stress Quickly:
- Drink a big glass of water.
- Take a Few Long, Deep Breaths
- Do a Brain Dump
- Ask for Help
- Get Moving
- Use an Affirmation
The U.S. National Library of Medicine defines stress as:
a “feeling of emotional or physical tension. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous…Your body reacts to stress by releasing hormones. These hormones make your brain more alert, cause your muscles to tense, and increase your pulse.”
Stress is a normal feeling, and quite familiar to most of us.
Sometimes, it can be positive, as when it alerts you to danger or motivates you to meet an important deadline.
However, it can also have a negative impact on both your emotional and physical health. These instances are when you need to find a way to reduce the stress you are experiencing, in order to move forward with the actions you must take.
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7 Speedy Stress Relievers for Adults
1. Drink a big glass of water.
Stress can cause dehydration.
This is due to increased fluid loss in your body from heavier breathing and higher heart rate. In addition, when you are stressed, there’s a good chance you are not eating and drinking a well-balanced diet (or anything, for that matter).
Dehydration also causes stress, as it can increase cortisol levels, headache, and fatigue.
It’s a vicious circle.
Although a big glass of H2O will not eliminate the sources of your stress, it can definitely alleviate some of the ways your body responds to your circumstances.
The stressors will continue, but your physical reaction to them will decrease.
If you find yourself in a high-stress situation, there’s a good possibility you haven’t kept up with your water consumption. You’ll benefit from both the hydration boost and the momentary break that drinking gives you. Drink up!
How long does it take: less than a minute
If you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time, you know I’m a huge advocate of meditation in daily living.
Meditation is an excellent stress reliever and provides many other benefits as well.
When you are feeling overwhelmed, spending even a few minutes in meditation can restore your calm and inner peace.
Many people think meditation is a complex process, but it can be as simple as sitting comfortably, focusing your thoughts, and breathing slowly. This enables you to control both the physical and mental impact of the stress you are feeling.
A quick YouTube search will provide many guided meditations you can access immediately, some specifically designed for stress relief.
How long does it take: two to twenty minutes, depending on your level of experience. A shorter session is generally better for beginners who are still learning to focus.
3. Take a Few Long, Deep Breaths
If meditation is not your style, take a minute just to focus on your breath. It will have much the same effect. Bonus: you can do this anywhere, anytime!
Take several long, slow, deep breaths. Inhale and exhale as slowly and completely as you can.
Repeat the box breath several times, keeping your focus on your breathing.
This focus on the breath (and not the thing that’s stressing you out!) helps to calm you.
You will also increase your oxygen intake, counteracting the shallow breathing you have probably been doing unaware.
How long does it take: about two minutes
4. Do a Brain Dump
What is a brain dump?
Simply put, it is a way to take all the different responsibilities, activities, demands, and deadlines out of your head and put them into a document.
A brain dump is particularly effective if your stress is caused by having too many responsibilities and are losing track of things you need to do.
This technique can get quite complicated and time-consuming (although the more detailed it becomes, the more effectively it controls stress.)
In its most basic, quickest-acting form, a brain dump is a short exercise in writing down one big to-do list for your current situation.
Open a blank document on your computer (or use pen and paper, if you prefer). Write down everything – I mean everything – you have going on in your life right now.
Create one giant to-do list with every responsibility you can think of included.
Let this be a stream-of-consciousness exercise, and don’t get bogged down in the details of creating any sort of order. Just try to get everything in your head into a written form.
This process of writing things down will increase your feelings of control, thereby helping you to manage your stress.
After everything is in writing, you can choose what to do with it – sort by priority, add deadlines, cluster similar activities, etc.
The first step is the most urgent, however – get this information out of your head and into writing.
How long does it take: ten-fifteen minutes
5. Ask for Help
This is both the simplest technique on this list and possibly the hardest one for most people to do.
In modern society, we often treat “having too much to do” as a positive quality and look down on those that reject or cannot handle the “busy-ness” of life.
This, unfortunately, tends to wear down on us eventually.
There is nothing, I repeat – NOTHING – wrong with asking for help when you are stressed.
Very often, people are more than willing to help out because they know just how you feel when you are overwhelmed. If you don’t ask for help, however, they may not realize that you need it, or what they can do to help you.
It can seem hard to ask, but remember – if the shoe was on the other foot, would you be willing to help out a friend, family member, or colleague that was feeling overwhelmed?
Ask for help when you need it.
How long does it take: about two minutes
6. Get Moving
Movement of any sort will reduce stress hormones and stimulate the production of endorphins, which together help foster relaxation.
- Take a short, fast walk or run.
- Dance to the most energetic song you know.
- Blast out some jumping jacks.
- Get on a bike and pedal your fastest.
Aim for a burst of energy release, the more intense, the better.
How long does it take: five minutes
7. Use an Affirmation
Affirmations are simple words or sentences that provide emotional support or encouragement when repeated consistently.
By speaking or writing an affirmation, you are changing your thoughts from limiting beliefs to empowering ones.
As a result, you take control of your response to the situations around you.
How do you use an affirmation?
Start by choosing one of the statements below that speak best to how you want to feel.
Stand in front of a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and repeat the affirmation several times.
Alternatively, you can write it down.
Either way, repeat at least ten times or until you begin to believe and trust in the affirmation.
Choose Your Affirmation:
- Everything is going to be okay.
- I have the power to manage my stress.
- I choose to respond to situations from a peaceful place.
- The end result is worth the stress I am currently feeling.
- I can manage my stress by moving forward.
How long does it take: about two minutes
Read More About Managing Stress:
- How to Recognize Your Stress Triggers – and What to Do About Them
- 7 Quick and Effective Ways to Reduce Stress
- Sleep Habits and Stress Relief
- How to Stop Worrying About Every Little Thing
Final Thoughts on Speedy Stress Relievers for Adults
Any one of these stress-busters on its own will help control stress, but combining two or more would be even more effective.
Personally, I always start with a big glass of water and then move on to one of the other techniques.
My favorite is the brain dump because it gives me the greatest sense of control.
Which of these stress busters works the best for you?
Lori is a happily 50+ woman striving to live her best life through self-awareness and self-care. She writes from experience, inspired by her own journey toward confidence, self-love, and positivity.
Holding degrees in Psychology, Education, and Nonprofit Management, Lori’s varied career has covered education administration, counseling, teaching, conference planning, and full-time motherhood. What do these roles all have in common? Caring for other people.
Today, Lori cares for others by promoting the benefits of self-care for mature women. She stands firm in her belief that through self-care, all women over 50 can feel confident, capable, and happy.