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Self-Care: If You Knew Then What You Know Now

There were so many things I took for granted all those years ago that I wish now I had paid more attention to. One thing was that I did not always practice good self-care. It’s only recently that I’ve had a true understanding of the importance of self-care for young adults. Fortunately, it’s never too late for self-care!

What would I like to tell my twenty-something-year-old self about all of the ways self-care can improve a person’s life?

I’ve put this list together based on what I wish I had started in my 20s and committed to. Imagine the competence I would have, had I been practicing certain habits for 30+ years at this point!

But you know what? Those habits I didn’t create back then? I’m working on them now.

It’s never too late to focus on good self-care habits.

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As my 50-something self would like to talk to my 20-something self, I can see my future 80-something self talking to my present self. And she would say,

Now is a good time to start taking better care of yourself.”

So, if by chance you are a young adult, here are some really essential self-care habits to begin now. If you stick with them throughout your years, know that Future You will appreciate it.

And if you are not a young adult, start where you are.

Start now.

Yes, those of us at 50+ need self-care. And we can start now.

It is nottoo late to take care of yourself!

Take Care of Your Skin
Get Appropriate Medical Care
Practice Your Balance and Posture
Find a Sport and a Hobby You Love
Save For Retirement
Keep Up With Family and Friends
Get Comfortable Being Alone

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It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Take Care of Your Skin

Your skin is your largest organ, and in today’s chemical-laden world, it takes a beating! 

Do everything in your power to feed and nurture your skin.  Your skin’s health will directly impact every other part of your body, so caring for it really is essential. 

How can you best care for your skin? 

Keep it clean – Use the most natural products you can find that do the job. Remove all makeup before going to sleep – every night. Develop a consistent cleansing routine. Products take time, so consistency is more important than any one type of product. Find what works for you and your skin type.

Keep it hydrated – Moisturizer, Eye Cream, and Night Cream are your friends. Even oily skin needs hydration.

Keep it protected – Sunscreen, every day. Again, you will have to put a little time in to find the brand and delivery method that works best for you.

Experiment with different products, and be open to new techniques that may be unfamiliar. Think Retinol, Vitamin C, Dry Brushing, MicroNeedling, and Facials, for starters.

Above all else, drink plenty of water, eat a reasonably healthy diet, and get the right amount of sleep for your body. 

All the skincare products in the world can not replace those three requirements for maintaining healthy skin.

It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Get Appropriate Medical Care

Even if you feel you are at your optimum health, wellness visits are important to establish a doctor-patient relationship, evaluate your baseline health statistics, and enable you to get face-to-face medical advice and recommendations. 

There are too many sneaky little ailments that only medical testing can identify.

Annual generalist visits and bi-annual dentist checkups are your minimum.  Depending on your situation, it’s likely you will also consult with a dermatologist, gastroenterologist, naturopath, or any of a host of other specialty doctors.

Preventative care is always easier to manage than curative care.

Don’t leave your health to chance. Follow the recommendations of your medical professionals.

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It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Practice Your Balance and Posture

Balance and posture are use-it-or-lose-it and losing either one really sucks. 

The good news is that you only need to spend a very few minutes each day focusing on these areas in order to maintain them.  Learn a few basic balance exercises, take up yoga, or find a Youtube video to follow daily.

In addition to your later-in-life concerns such as limited mobility and falls, focusing on these areas will benefit you now. 

Working on your balance and posture will strengthen your core, improve muscle tone, and make you appear taller, thinner, and more confident. 

Who doesn’t want that, at any age?

It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Find a Sport and a Hobby You Love

You probably participated in sports and clubs pretty actively in high school, and maybe college as well. But as you moved into adulthood with all its demands, sports and hobbies probably moved to the back burner.

It may be years now since you jogged, swung a bat, crocheted a bootie, or wrote a poem.

Bring back your sports and hobbies!

Sports will help keep you active, mobile, and healthy. They are a fantastic way to develop and strengthen friendships and a source of stress relief. The sport you choose doesn’t matter as much as that you find time to participate.

Join a kickball team, take golf lessons, swim at the local pool. Try pickleball.

If you don’t have a favorite sport, learn one. It’s okay to not know the rules or have any talent when you start out. You will learn.

As with sports, there are plenty of hobbies out there for you to explore. Take the time to try some out.

Hobbies boost your creativity, build self-confidence, introduce you to new people, and tend to be very relaxing.

Try photography, weaving, watercolor painting, hiking, geocaching.

Some hobbies can be pursued independently and some are better in groups. Find something you enjoy that you will make time for in your life.

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It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Save for Retirement

Maybe it seems like a long way off (but probably not), but retirement savings is as much about creating good habits as it is about putting money away for the future.

About 50% of women ages 55 to 66 have no personal retirement savings.

Too many women our age are still intimidated by financial planning.

You may only have a dollar a week to put aside – but that’s enough to start. Put it in a shoebox in your closet, or a savings account. It may seem pointless when it’s a small sum, but it’s teaching you about planning habits and long-term goal setting.

Take a class or learn online about investing, IRAs, debt management, stocks, bonds, annuities, and more. Starting from scratch? I highly recommend the book The Ultimate Retirement Guide for 50+: Winning Strategies to Make Your Money Last a Lifetime by Suze Orman to learn some basic information.

Become confident in your financial knowledge, and put it to use in your life.

It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Keep Up With Family and Friends

Throughout childhood and young adulthood, friendships tend to be easy to develop and maintain. But with the whirlwind of adulthood, it’s all too easy to lose touch with those you care about.

It can be hard to find and make friends after 50.

Friendships – and even family relationships – require effort to maintain.

It’s natural to go in different directions and lose track of some people, but those you want to keep in your life, you must work to keep.

  • Make it a habit to email your sister once a month.
  • Text your best friend every few days.
  • Gather your college friends for an annual weekend.

These people are your history; don’t let them disappear for lack of attention.

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It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Travel

Find a way, find a time, and go.

If you must choose between travel and material possessions, nine times out of ten, travel is the better choice. Why? Because the experience will make you happier than the possession.

As with everything, the definition of travel depends on you. If you are a true adventurer, you may want to live in a foreign country for a time. Others may be satisfied exploring a new city in their home state.

Traveling, especially if traveling alone, can be intimidating to many people. (I used to count myself in that crowd, but not anymore!)

Go anyway.

Be intimidated.

Feel the power of moving past the fear, and reveling in the experience.

Think of travel as a muscle – the more you use it, the stronger and more capable it becomes.

No matter what else you do in life, you will never regret giving yourself the experience of travel.

Pinky swear.

Find books about solo travel.

It’s Not Too Late for Self-Care: Get Comfortable Being Alone

Everyone spends time alone. Not everyone is comfortable with being alone.

Life throws us curveballs at every opportunity, and the only person you absolutely know will be around for your entire life is you.

Get to know who you are. Really explore what makes you tick. Are you an extrovert or an introvert? Do you love socializing, or quiet spaces, or singing in the shower, or working with children? What are your values, where do you draw lines in the sand for your relationships, how important is honesty to you? How do you like to spend your free time?

Learn to control – or live with – your annoying habits, addictions, and quirks. Learn what makes you different from everyone else, and what commonalities you have, too.

Understand that there are no wrong answers – you are you.

Once you are comfortable with yourself one on one, go out in public alone as often as you need to until it’s second nature. Dinner in a restaurant, beer at the local pub, watching a movie, shopping.

Whatever you do, learn to be confident doing it alone.

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Final Thoughts on It’s Not Too Late For The Self-Care You Wish You’d Started Years Ago

Self-care is not synonymous with self-indulgence.

These activities all involve caring for yourself as an individual and responding to your individual needs. Remember, you are a whole person, and you need to nurture all of the special, unique parts that make you, you.

I hope you will find a way to build time in your life for each of these self-care activities because Future You will be glad you did!

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3 thoughts on “Self-Care: If You Knew Then What You Know Now”

  1. What an amazing post, I was actually looking for something that I can put together as a guide for my daughters for when they are young adults. I think giving this tools to them on paper would be wonderful because then can have it as a reminder.

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